4Cross Love Letter #33 Wests Rule in Love

West Wisdom: Not All Rules Are Meant to Be Kept

Dear 4Cross Love Birds,

Wests thrive in order. Structure makes them feel safe. But in love? Rigidity can feel like a locked door.

If you’re a West, ask yourself: Are you following rules that no longer serve you?

Real connection isn’t efficient—it’s messy, beautiful, and unpredictable. Let love color outside the lines a little.

– Shelly LaVigne, Love Investigator