4Cross Love Letter #34 Love Survival

How to Tell You’re in Survival Mode

Dear 4Cross Love Birds,

Here’s a quick gut-check:

Norths get bossy.
Easts vanish.
Souths over-accommodate.
Wests go cold and critical.

When you’re in stress, you’re not in love—you’re in survival. Learn to recognize when your biology is in the driver’s seat. Pause, breathe, and return to presence.

The game changes when you stop playing just to protect.

– Shelly LaVigne, Love Investigator