4Cross Love Letter #36 Is Love Biased?

Love Isn’t Blind—It’s Biased

Dear 4Cross Love Birds,

You’re not blind in love. You’re biased—toward what feels safe to your position.

Norths want certainty. Easts want freedom. Souths want emotional peace. Wests want structure. You chase what calms that craving—even if it costs you everything else.

That’s not a flaw. It’s biology.

But with awareness, you can choose love, not just react from fear.

– Shelly LaVigne, Love Investigator