4Cross Love Letter #35 Is Love Chemistry?

Not All Chemistry Is Compatibility

Dear 4Cross Love Birds,

Chemistry is fun. But compatibility? That’s long-game love.

4Cross shows us that attraction without alignment leads to burnout. A South may adore an East’s spontaneity—but feel unsafe long-term. A North may admire a West’s structure—but feel stifled without room to lead.

Before you fall deeper, ask: Does this person support or stress my core concern?

That answer matters more than butterflies.

– Shelly LaVigne, Love Investigator